Sunday, April 26, 2009

Spring and Sophie Pix

Spring is here in HH. The flowers twirl in a kaleidascope of color, birds awaken us and sing us to sleep, there is a general feeling of delight (relief?) that the cold winter is but a faded memory. folks seem friendlier--shopkeepers make small talk, moms smile to each other on the street, the bicycle-riding grandparents call out "hellos". It's nice. A few weeks ago, we decorated the Easter Tree. Germans hang colorful eggs on the branches of a budding tree. Around Easter Sunday, the blossoms bloom, and spring is celebrated. Sophie was intrigued by the fuzzy buds and the smooth eggs. Sophie started eating carrots on Saturday. Loves them, especially steamed, and pureed with mama milk. She also has a new "game" that I probably should discourage, but it's sooo cute...when she has finished breast feeding, she looks up at me and laughs. Hee hee hee. This makes me laugh, which encourages her to laugh more. Soon we're both shrieking with delight. What fun. Her whole face lights up when she laughs. Sophie's gymnastic and yoga prowess continues to develop nicely. She can touch her toes, roll from left to right, and reach out and clutch a favorite toy both on her back and on her tummy. She also gives sweet "concerts" at around 6am...lots of la-la-las and ooh-ooh-oohs. Her voice is sweet and slightly husky, and reminds me of a jazz singer. She has two friends--Ace (who is five days younger), and Vesa (who is three days older). Here she is with Vesa at the ice cream parlor. Sophie also loves to read! She helps turn the pages of "Brown Bear", and snuggles in for "Goodnight Moon" at night. Can you tell that we love her? She went to a cafe with some friends from my German class. Everyone loved it! Dan and I were happy to help myself to the brunch buffet while our daughter basked in the glow of our friends' arms. Sophie is so cool. How did we get so lucky? So come on over to HH and spend some time with Sophie before she grows up. :-)

Sunday, April 5, 2009

Baptism and More

Sophie is growing and changing before our eyes. What a delight!

On March 22, she was baptised at her American grandparents' church in California, St. Paul's Lutheran Church. Coincidentally, this date marked the 50th anniversary of her German grandma's confirmation, and the name of our church in Hamburg is St. Paul's. I love those synchronicities... :-)

We celebrated with a small family gathering that included yummy California cuisine and German cake. Sophie wore a hat that her great-great Grandma Annie made and a dress from Grandma.

This week's milestones include:

* deliberately grabbing for Rocket, her favorite purple bunny
* laughing when Dan plays peek-a-boo with her
* picking up Rocket and other toys
* holding her spoon...and choosing the colorful wooden one over the plain white plastic one
* staying in the classic tummy pose for about a minute, and lifting herself up when she's tired
* lots of singing to the bears
* sleeping for four hours at a time at night, sometimes, but more often in three hour stretches
* entertaining herself with the purple and pink elephant dangling toy while we ride the train
* full laughs when we play "Head, Shoulders, Knees and Toes" and "Way Up In The Sky"

She's even-keeled and lots of fun. I savor every minute of the joy and the snuggles for she's growing more independent and self-confident every day. She's now a proper little girl...not a newborn...she's growing up before my eyes. And I love her so much.

Here she is with her great-Grandma Love, Grandma Patti "Grammy Crackers", and Mama.

Friday, February 13, 2009

Citizenship

Sophie is now a US citizen!

On February 2, our star-spangled daughter traveled to the consulate in Berlin, and now holds dual citizenship in America and Germany. She got her passport, social security card, and first flag. Although I'm not usually that patriotic, I can't stop humming "You're a Grand Old Flag", "Yankee Doodle" and "She'll Be Comin' Round the Mountain."

What makes this event so exciting? Partly the sense of community--our little daughter is now one of our national tribe. She gets all the privileges and responsibilities that go with citizenship. She'll learn the importance of voting and voice. She is inextricably united with other Americans culturally. And because she'll learn American English, her language and national cultural values will make more sense to her.

That said, she's also a citizen of Germany, a member of the European Union. She also has those rights and responsibilities, too. Again, she'll learn German and absorb all its implied values and biases. She will be able to work anywhere in the EU, study at the university without paying tuition, travel on a German passport, and be influenced by European ideals.

How will Sophie reconcile the differences in these cultures? How will she make sense of the world? Will she, like her parents, build a foundation based on similarities and trust, bridging the two norms?

As I watch our sweet daughter blissfully sleep, I wonder if the time has arrived to truly set aside the ideas of borders and nations. The world is becoming more blended, and human culture will undoubtedly change, for what does it mean to be German, if one lives in America, or vice versa? Or both? The face of Sophia reflects the face of the world--united, new, and beautiful. The best of all cultures.

Thursday, February 5, 2009

Farewell, Stormy


On Friday, January 23, our sweet hamster Stormy passed away. She was an extraordinary being, and brought great joy to our family. We will miss you, little one.

Born in October 2007 in Oakland CA, Stormy was the smartest of the litter. She was the first to venture from the nest, the first to hop out of the shoebox while we cleaned the cage, and the first to climb the cage bars. She loved to scamper across our bathroom counter and explore the apartment in her ball.

Defying all hamster textbooks and websites, Stormy enjoyed being held and petted. She knew her name, and would venture from her hut when called (perhaps enticed by a sunflower seed or some other treat). Her cage was on the kitchen window ledge, and she "joined" us at every meal.

She knew that she was part of the family and grew lonely when we were away; after a two-week vacation, Stormy changed her schedule to spend time with us, staying awake during the day and sleeping at night. Sometimes she would forgo eating in lieu of being held and petted. This bond was the deciding factor in moving her to Germany.

Stormy was a hearty traveler. Not only did she venture from Oakland to Southern California twice, she may very well be the first hamster to cross the Atlantic in an airplane, business class. The "hamster with a passport" charmed the security officials at LAX and Frankfurt; one inspector even knew her species (Russian Dwarf) and offered tips on how to reduce her stress for the last leg of the flight (wrap a t-shirt around the travel container).

Stormy loved to eat plain yogurt from her own spoon. She was fond of apples, pears, cucumbers, broccoli, and Joe's O's cereal. She loved chewing on molasses bear treats and would wrestle with one for hours.

She fainted once in the living room. Our furniture had not yet arrived, and we thought it was a perfect play area for a small hamster. Dan carried her in; Stormy twitched her nose, and promptly passed out, tongue out, paws limp. We tapped her nose, took her outside for fresh air, and revived her by splashing water on her face. Although the cause was unknown, it could have been the lack of furniture--do hamsters have some sort of radar? She also experienced a mild concussion when she fell off my shoulder onto the kitchen floor.

Her nickname was "Flo Jo" as she endlessly ran in her wheel, often at great speed.

When Sophie arrived, Stormy adapted. She learned to squeak for attention, mimicking Sophia's cries. She cherished the time together in the kitchen, performing acrobatic feats of upside-down paw dangling, climbing over her wheel, and zooming through the tube.

She was Dan's first pet, and reminded us about the importance of unconditional, continual love.

Rest in peace, dear one. We feel your spirit, and look forward to seeing you in the afterlife.

Friday, January 16, 2009

Sunday at the Krupunder See

Let's be honest--"cold" does not do justice to the recent weather here in Hamburg. For the past two weeks, the average temperature hovered between zero and minus seven.

The upshot of living in an icebox is that snow sticks to the ground and lakes freeze. And when it's a sunny Sunday, everyone in Hamburg flocks to the local lake for an afternoon of merriment.

We decided to walk to the Krupunder See, our little local lake. We were not alone, for nearly 200 people were playing on the ice. Granted, there were signs posted saying that activity on the ice was prohibited, but try enforcing that to a 10 year-old with a new pair of ice skates or a grandma with a soccer ball. Hockey games were in full swing, several mountain bikers cruised the lake, an ice-wind-surfer glided across the middle of the lake. It was unbelievably fun.

Before anyone calls Child Protective Services, rest assured that we weren't the only ones with a stroller on the ice! Ok, maybe we had the youngest little one, but we were only following local custom and tradition. What kind of mother would I be to deny my child a truly German experience of playing on a frozen lake?

We threaded our way between skaters and walkers to slide on the ice. Whee!! Sophie practiced for the 2025 Olympics in the new sport of Ice Buggying. You can check out her debut on this video: youtube Sophie on the ice


Someone recognized a grand business opportunity and offered Gluhwine, hot chocolate and juice.

However, we didn't get a chance to sip the sweet treats as the police came by and gently but firmly announced that we all needed to get off the ice: Achtung, bitte--it was verboten to play on the frozen lake. :-(

About 100 of us slunk to the shore while the other 100 or so continued frolicking on the See. The police car drove away, then some of the crowd ebbed back to the frozen playground and warm refreshment stand. We headed home; Sophie would be getting hungry soon, and our hearts were full of childlike joy.

New Year's Day at Timmendorfer Strand

Frohes Neues Jahr! Happy New Year!

At the stroke of midnight, my parents, Sophie, Dan and I welcomed in 2009. After a small toast, Dan and I joined the celebration on our street. We lit fireworks, greeted scores of tipsy neighbors, and shrieked with delight at the colorful pyrotechnics show in our (usually calm) country lane. There is something thrilling about shooting off a rocket or firework fountain at one's house, especially when everyone else is lighting them, too. I haven't had this much fun with fireworks since Telluride.

In Germany, it's legal to set off fireworks from midnight to 4m as part of a New Year's celebration. Naturally, many kids were "practicing" hours, even days, earlier--I guess they needed to make sure that those sparklers really do work before the Big Show. What better way than to throw small fireworks at the passing S-Bahn train? :-) The idea of having a window of time for fireworks is great--it lets everyone cut loose, but with parameters. Sehr Deutsch (very German)! Much healthier than prohibiting the fun and slapping a fine on any ne'er do well who dares to light a wimpy Roman candle.

My parents, being from Southern California, yearned to go to the beach. I can't blame them--there's nothing like the sound of waves or the smell of the sea. We drove to the beautiful Timmendorfer Strand on the Ostsee. Wow! The sand was the palest yellow, nearly white. The sea was tranquil, like a mirror. Small waves lapped at our boots. I've never been so happy to see a seagull.

However, being that it was January 1 in northern Germany, the weather was cold. The aptly named Strandkorb BIRR summed up the climate. Fortunately, we found a beach hut that sold hot chocolate under heating lamps.

I love being at the ocean. The few hours at Timmendorfer Strand were magical and filled me with a deep peace. As I watched the crescent moon rise over the trees and hover above the sand, I felt deliciously alive. It was as if the waves were saying, "all is well in the world, you are blessed."

Soon we became hungry and made our way to a local Chinese restaurant. It was great! I usually prefer Thai or Japanese to Chinese cuisine, but the flavors proved interesting and tasty. Sophie became fascinated by the colorful lights and balloons.

Looking forward to our next trip to this beautiful spot on the Baltic Sea.

Monday, January 5, 2009

She's here!!!!!

She's here!

On December 8, 2008, at 9:08 pm, our beautiful daughter was born. Welcome to the world, Sophia Marie Rolles. We are so glad that you are here.

Already our lives have changed in the most wonderful ways. Sophie is the center of our world. I remember that we had a delicious life before her birth, but that life seems long ago. Things like swimming, salsa dancing, and spending endless time on work related projects are distant memories. My new reality entails naps with Sophie on my chest, listening for coos or cries in the night, 3 AM feedings. Dan is an expert diaper changer, and I'm learning the art of breast feeding. Sophie enjoys the gentle rumble of the stroller, and we've gone for a walk or two nearly every day.

Certainly there are challenges. What to do when Sophie's tummy hurts? How do Dan and I make time for each other, especially when we are sleep deprived? What do those different cries mean?

Yet, somehow, we're learning. Sophie teaches us, we teach her, together we grow. Today's lessons: even the smallest baby needs some time to stare at the teddy bear print in her cradle, and never underestimate the power of a good burp. As I type this, she rests in the crook of my left arm. I love her so much, and wouldn't trade this experience for anything.

We made two albums, one with our own pictures of Sophie's adventures during her first month:
http://www.kodakgallery.com/ShareLanding.action?c=b44whfjf.9c0ra397&x=0&y=-2wr5ha&localeid=en_US

and one with pictures taken by a professional photographer (our Christmas present for the Grandparents):
http://www.kodakgallery.com/ShareLanding.action?c=b44whfjf.ansa68y3&x=0&y=d8a3u0&localeid=en_US

A song that I made up for her:
There is no one in the world like our precious baby girl
There is no one in the world like Sophia
We're so glad you're in the world, darling baby girl
We love you so much, Sophia.